Coaching for women is not something I planned from the start. I didn’t sit down one day and decide that I would only coach women. There’s no big moment or story behind it. It simply became clear over time where the work felt most natural and where it actually made a difference. And instead of overthinking that, I chose to follow it.

What I Started Noticing

Most of the conversations I was having started to sound familiar in a good way. Women who had moved abroad, built a life that looked right from the outside, and were doing everything they were supposed to do. But somewhere underneath that, there was a quiet sense that something wasn’t fully landing.

Not in a dramatic way, not a crisis, just a feeling that something felt off or slightly out of place. And instead of pushing that feeling away, they were ready to look at it. That’s where the work naturally started to go deeper.

It’s Not About Gender, It’s About Pattern

I don’t see this as a strict line between men and women, but there are certain patterns I notice more often with women. You tend to adjust quickly, take responsibility for how things feel, and keep things running even when it asks a lot from you. That strength is exactly what makes it easy to override yourself without realising it.

At some point, there’s a moment where you start to question things more honestly. Not because something is wrong, but because you can feel that something needs to shift. That moment is where coaching becomes valuable.

Why I Don’t Try to Be Everything for Everyone

I’ve noticed that the work flows differently depending on who’s sitting in front of me. Some conversations stay more on the surface, while others naturally move into something deeper without forcing it. With women, especially in this phase of life, there is often an openness and a willingness to look a little further, to be honest about what no longer feels right, and to actually do something with that awareness. That makes the work more meaningful, not heavier, just more real. And when the conversation is real, change tends to follow more easily. So instead of trying to stretch myself in every direction, I stay close to where that kind of work happens most naturally, and right now that is mostly with women.

Why This Comes Up So Often After Moving Abroad

Living abroad, especially in a place like Spain, brings a lot of beauty and freedom, but it also asks more from you than people expect. You leave behind structure, familiarity, and a version of yourself that was shaped in a completely different environment. Even when the move is the right decision, it can still create a subtle sense of imbalance.

You are building again, but without the same reference points. And while everything might look fine on the outside, it can take time before you feel fully grounded again. That phase is more common than people talk about, and it comes up in many of the conversations I have.

This is also where coaching for women often becomes relevant in a very natural way. Not because something is wrong, but because there is a gap between the life you are living and how you actually feel within it. You might be doing everything right, settling in, supporting your family, creating a new routine, yet still feel slightly out of place or unsure of your direction.

Coaching for women in this phase is not about fixing the situation, but about creating clarity. Taking a step back, understanding what has shifted, and reconnecting with what actually matters to you now, instead of holding on to who you were before the move.

So For Now, This Is the Focus

I’m not making a big statement out of this and I’m not closing doors. I’m simply paying attention to where the work feels clear, honest and useful. Right now, that is with women who feel that something in their life needs to shift, even if they cannot fully explain it yet.

Final Thought

This isn’t about labels or excluding anyone. It’s about staying close to the kind of work that actually creates movement, doing that well, and loving what I do!